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How does one succeed in life?

08.06.2025 08:28

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Does not procrastinate.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What I need from you?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What's a memory from your childhood that shaped who you are today?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.